Saturday, May 31, 2008

Rumors ...

Rumor has it that matching has begun. Hopefully we'll hear something more by Monday morning. It appears that travel approvals will be affected by the earthquake and the Olympics, but not the actual referrals.

Friday, May 30, 2008

Memorial Day

Although it's traditionally a day reserved to honor those that fought and died in the service of our country, many of us also observe Memorial Day to honor all of our loved ones who have crossed over. I remember my Mom & Dad planting flowers on the family graves every Memorial Day weekend. This year, my husband, daughter & I resurrected that tradition (so to speak).

We drove the hour and a half to my hometown, drove past the house I grew up in, then drove to the 2 cemeteries where my family members (ancestors even) are buried. We planted pretty pink flowers (Elizabeth's choice) and tidied up the plots. We waved and smiled at others doing the same. The weather held until the very last flower was planted and then, as we started to drive away, a gentle rain began to fall. It was just what the flowers needed ... right on cue. Thanks, Mom.

"Life is eternal;
and love is immortal;
And death is only a horizon;
And a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight."
-Rossiter Worthington Raymond

Take a walk down the sunny dirt road ...

The Strong National Museum of Play has a new permanent exhibit - The Berenstain Bears - and Elizabeth loves it! There are so many things for a 4-year-old to see, do, and be in Bear Country, that when she went there on a play date with her friend, April, they spent the entire time in that one exhibit. We pretty much had to drag 'em out of there when it was time to leave!

The journey down the sunny dirt road starts with life-size sculptures of the Bear family. After first stopping by The Bear Country Bank ATM to receive Bear Bucks (the official Bear Country currency), we walked down Bear Country Main Street and explored the stores and businesses inspired by Stan & Jan Berenstain's Bear books. There's Farmer Ben’s Farm, Sister and Brother Bear’s Club Houses, and the Bear Country School. Kids can design and sell quilts at Mama Bear’s Quilt Shop or put on an apron and tackle a project in Papa Bear’s Woodworking Shop. Hungry bears can head to Bear Family Restaurant, a kid-sized diner where you can play customer or be part of the staff. Dr. Bearson’s Dentist Office provides an opportunity to play dentist with a giant set of (removable) teeth, a giant toothbrush, floss, and a dentist’s mirror. It's a great way to spend an afternoon, just ask Elizabeth!

Monday, May 19, 2008

Lilac Festival 2008


We went to the Lilac Festival last week and walked through the beautiful gardens at Highland Park. Although it's not my favorite festival here in Rochester (I prefer the Cornhill and Clothesline Art Festivals), it was nice to walk hand-in-hand in the sun with my daughter and watch her enjoy an Abbott's Frozen Custard. She rode on a pretty little black pony named Peanut, and fearlessly walked up on stage to dance with other children while a man named Mike played a ukulele and sang silly songs. When we got home, she drew a picture of our family with 2 of her friends alongside (all of us wearing glasses), saying that it is a picture of everything she likes. She then wrote her name very carefully along the bottom of it and we hung it on the refrigerator. That night, as we got ready for bed, I told her I loved her and then kissed the top of her head. She said, "I love you, too, Mama," then quietly added, "with all of my heart." It was the perfect ending to a perfect day.

China's Earthquake

On Monday, May 12, at 2:28 pm. Beijing time, a major earthquake, measuring 7.9 on the Richter scale, jolted southwestern China's Sichuan Province. Earlier today, sirens wailed across China, from tent cities in Sichuan province to Beijing's Tiananmen Square, and millions of Chinese stood for three minutes to mourn the dead exactly 1 week after the quake struck. A 3-day period of national mourning has begun.

There are 69,107 people confirmed dead, with 18,230 still missing. Five million are now homeless. Parents lost children when schools crumbled. Many children are newly orphaned. Others still search. It's a tragedy of such magnitude that most of us can't even begin to comprehend. Thank God.

Half The Sky Foundation (HTS) has been wonderful about keeping the IA community up-to-date. They've been posting daily news and progress reports on their website as well as pictures and stories that showcase human beings at their best. Although we have not received a referral and have no way of knowing where our daughter may be, we will be donating through our adoption agency to the Red Cross Society of China. For those of you out there who also wish to help, HTS offers a couple of ways to do so. Please check out their website, and just try not cry.

(http://halfthesky.org/work/earthquake08.php/)

Sunday, May 4, 2008

It's National Nurses Week!

In honor of nurses and nurse educators everywhere ...



Wednesday, April 30, 2008

New referrals (and other rumors) ...

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Rumors are flying that referrals are on their way to families with LIDs of 1/10-12/2006. A mere 3 days. UGH!! But those aren't the only rumors flying ...

According to RQ, a European country has spoken with the CCAA and has this to report:
"-- CCAA says the waiting time will continue to increase and they don’t know how long it will get.
-- Domestic adoption within China is now four to five times the number of international adoptions out of China. IA will continue to decrease, but IA will always be needed, especially for SN children.
-- Approximately 8,000 children were adopted out internationally in 2007, compared with approximately 12,000 in earlier years.
-- They have slowed down the review process.
-- The CCAA will work as normal during the Olympics.
-- To help families plan travel around the Olympics, travel approvals will be given that last for five months instead of three months.
-- Last month half of the children adopted internationally were special needs. I can’t tell if they are saying it has been one third in the past, or if most months it is one third. But it is clear that last month it was half.
-- The new online system is working to find families for SN children faster. The system is new and the kinks are still being worked out, but it sounds like over all the CCAA is pleased with it.
-- There are a lot of five plus year old boys available.
-- The Tomorrow Plan is being extended indefinitely.
-- The CCAA is going to digitally archive all of their files, going back to 1994. This includes children’s documents, parent’s documents, and follow up reports for over 100,000 adoptions."


What impact will all of this have on us? I have absolutely no idea. Welcome to the world of International Adoption. All I know, is that we have a son or daughter waiting for us somewhere in China and that we're in this for the long haul.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Maxine and margaritas ...


















The Perfect Margarita:

Tip #1: Shaken, not stirred (and NEVER made in a blender).
Tip #2: Serve Margaritas straight up or on the rocks, NEVER frozen.
Tip #3: Use Kosher (not iodized) salt.
Tip #4: Never EVER drink and drive.

For Traditionalists: (3-2-1 recipe)
3 parts Tequila (100% blue agave)
2 parts Cointreau (never Triple sec)
1 part freshly squeezed lime juice.

-OR-

For Grand Marnier fans:
1 oz Tequila (100% blue agave)
1 oz Grand Marnier liqueur
1 oz freshly squeezed lime juice
(or try the 3-2-1 ratio)

Pour all ingredients over ice in a cocktail shaker. Shake to your liking and strain into a margarita glass rimmed with Kosher salt. Garnish with a lime wedge and ENJOY!

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

In honor of earth day ...

Global warming is a very real threat.

Earth on Fire

• Average temperatures have climbed 1.4 degrees Fahrenheit (0.8 degree Celsius) around the world since 1880, much of this in recent decades, according to NASA's Goddard Institute for Space Studies.

• The rate of warming is increasing. The 20th century's last two decades were the hottest in 400 years and possibly the warmest for several millennia, according to a number of climate studies. And the United Nations' Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change (IPCC) reports that 11 of the past 12 years are among the dozen warmest since 1850.

• The Arctic is feeling the effects the most. Average temperatures in Alaska, western Canada, and eastern Russia have risen at twice the global average, according to the multinational Arctic Climate Impact Assessment report compiled between 2000 and 2004.

• Arctic ice is rapidly disappearing, and the region may have its first completely ice-free summer by 2040 or earlier. Polar bears and indigenous cultures are already suffering from the sea-ice loss.

• Glaciers and mountain snows are rapidly melting—for example, Montana's Glacier National Park now has only 27 glaciers, versus 150 in 1910. In the Northern Hemisphere, thaws also come a week earlier in spring and freezes begin a week later.

• Coral reefs, which are highly sensitive to small changes in water temperature, suffered the worst bleaching—or die-off in response to stress—ever recorded in 1998, with some areas seeing bleach rates of 70 percent. Experts expect these sorts of events to increase in frequency and intensity in the next 50 years as sea temperatures rise.

• An upsurge in the amount of extreme weather events, such as wildfires, heat waves, and strong tropical storms, is also attributed in part to climate change by some experts.

So are we humans causing it?

"Very likely," the IPCC said in a February 2007 report. The report, based on the work of some 2,500 scientists in more than 130 countries, concluded that humans have caused all or most of the current planetary warming. Human-caused global warming is often called anthropogenic climate change.

• Industrialization, deforestation, and pollution have greatly increased atmospheric concentrations of water vapor, carbon dioxide, methane, and nitrous oxide, all greenhouse gases that help trap heat near Earth's surface.

• Humans are pouring carbon dioxide into the atmosphere much faster than plants and oceans can absorb it.

• These gases persist in the atmosphere for years, meaning that even if such emissions were eliminated today, it would not immediately stop global warming.

• Some experts point out that natural cycles in Earth's orbit can alter the planet's exposure to sunlight, which may explain the current trend. Earth has indeed experienced warming and cooling cycles roughly every hundred thousand years due to these orbital shifts, but such changes have occurred over the span of several centuries. Today's changes have taken place over the past hundred years or less.

• Other recent research has suggested that the effects of variations in the sun's output are "negligible" as a factor in warming, but other, more complicated solar mechanisms could possibly play a role.

What might happen?












A follow-up report by the IPCC released in April 2007 warned that global warming could lead to large-scale food and water shortages and have catastrophic effects on wildlife.

• Sea level could rise between 7 and 23 inches (18 to 59 centimeters) by century's end, the IPCC's February 2007 report projects. Rises of just 4 inches (10 centimeters) could flood many South Seas islands and swamp large parts of Southeast Asia.

• Some hundred million people live within 3 feet (1 meter) of mean sea level, and much of the world's population is concentrated in vulnerable coastal cities. In the U.S., Louisiana and Florida are especially at risk.

• Glaciers around the world could melt, causing sea levels to rise while creating water shortages in regions dependent on runoff for fresh water.

• Strong hurricanes, droughts, heat waves, wildfires, and other natural disasters may become commonplace in many parts of the world. The growth of deserts may also cause food shortages in many places.

• More than a million species face extinction from disappearing habitat, changing ecosystems, and acidifying oceans.

• The ocean's circulation system, known as the ocean conveyor belt, could be permanently altered, causing a mini-ice age in Western Europe and other rapid changes.

• At some point in the future, warming could become uncontrollable by creating a so-called positive feedback effect. Rising temperatures could release additional greenhouse gases by unlocking methane in permafrost and undersea deposits, freeing carbon trapped in sea ice, and causing increased evaporation of water.

What can we do about it right now?.













1. Change your light bulbs. If every household in the U.S. replaced a burned-out bulb with an energy-efficient, ENERGY STAR qualified compact fluorescent bulb, the cumulative effect is enormous. It would prevent greenhouse gas emissions equivalent to that from nearly 800,000 cars. It would also save enough energy to light 2.5 million homes for a year.

2. Drive less. On average, a passenger car emits 11,400 pounds of CO2 each year while a home emits 9,000 pounds of CO2 per person each year in the United States. And since we all can't afford to by a Hybrid right now, leaving your car at home two days a week will reduce your CO2 emissions by 1,590 pounds a year.

3. Strip down, bundle up! Add two degrees to the AC thermostat in summer, and two degrees in winter. Better yet, ceiling fans use 80% less energy than central air conditioners. By only using ceiling fans you can reduce your annual cooling costs by 10-65%. In warm weather run the fan blades in a counter-clockwise direction to feel 5 degrees cooler. During the winter set the fan blades to rotate clockwise at a low speed to force warm air from the ceiling down into the living space. Also, if 1 in 10 households serviced heating and cooling systems annually, cleaned or replaced filters regularly, used a programmable thermostat and replaced old equipment with ENERGY STAR models it would prevent the emissions of more than 17 billion pounds of greenhouse gases.

4. Watch out for the refrigerator! Your refrigerator is the biggest consumer of electricity among household appliances and responsible for 10-15% of the electricity you use each year. Don't set the thermostat too high. Lowering the temperature even 1 degree will make a big difference. If your refrigerator is near a heating vent, or always in the sun, then change the location, cover up the heating vent near it or cover the window. Turn on your "energy saver" switch near the thermostat. Clean the condenser coil. This one, very simple thing can improve the efficiency of your refrigerator reducing your annual energy costs by $20. Make sure the doors seal properly, and keep the cool in.

5. But don't turn your back on the the hot water heater, the washer and dryer, or the dishwasher. Either turn the hot water heater down to 120 degrees, or turn on the "energy conservation" setting. For each 10 degrees reduction in water temperature, you can save 3-5% in energy costs. Buy insulation at a local store and insulate your hot water heater and pipes. Install a timer on your water heater to turn off at night and on just before you wake up in the morning. Don't pre-rinse dishes. Today's detergents are powerful enough to do the job. Wait until you have a full load to run the dishwasher. Wash clothes in cold water, not hot. Ninety percent of the energy used in operating a washing machine goes toward heating the water that washes and rinses the clothes. Don't over-dry your clothes. Better yet, hang dry!

6. Garden wisely. While it is true that planting more trees will help in the short term because they essentially soak up carbon, they also release carbon dioxide when they die. So it just postpones the problem. But there are other reasons to plant trees - as wind breaks to save energy and as shade to lower cooling costs. As for plants, choose hardier plants that need less water. Plant flowers that need more water in groups and add mulch to help keep moisture in. Water your lawn sparingly.

7. Buy Green Energy and invest in green energy stocks. Imagine if we ran out of fossil fuels tomorrow, what would we do? Well, we'd get our electricity from renewable energy, such as solar panels, geothermal and wind power sources. Many utilities now give consumers the option to buy "green power." Ask for it! Learn the truth about nuclear power and natural gas as viable "green" options. They aren't. Radioactive waste will be a problem for tens of thousands of years into the future. Even though natural gas emits half as much CO2 as coal, it is still responsible for 20% of CO2 emissions in the United States while only providing us with around 23% of the energy consumed. Natural gas can help us make a transition, but it isn't the solution. Finally, invest in green stocks and renewable energy companies through socially responsible funds.

8. Go organic. Even with our vast reservoir of scientific knowledge about farming, most American farmers still spray a billion pounds of pesticides to protect crops each year. Now here's the kicker: when chemical pesticides are used to kill pests, they can also kill microorganisms that keep carbon contained in the soil. When the microorganisms are gone, the carbon is released into the atmosphere as CO2. And when those organisms are gone, the soil is no longer naturally fertile and chemical fertilizers become a necessity, not a luxury. But besides going organic - thereby saving the carbon release from soil - there are other simple things you can do with food that will also make a difference:
- Eat locally grown food. If the food doesn't have to travel far, there's less CO2 from the trucks that ship it.
- Eat fruits and vegetables in season. Again, that saves the enormous transportation costs.
- Plant your own vegetable garden. It's not as hard as you might think.
- Eat fresh, not frozen.

9. Buy recycled. This may sound simple, but it takes less energy to manufacture a recycled product than a brand new one. And before you buy, check to see if the product or its packaging can be recycled. The recyclable logo (three arrows forming a triangle) is fairly common now.

10. Be a minimalist. Every time you buy something, energy has gone into getting that product to you. So the less you buy, the more you save energy-wise. Buy in bulk. Donate or recycle what you really don't need. Buy quality products that will last longer and reduce quantity.