Monday, September 29, 2008

The next batch of babies!!


Referrals have arrived for those with LIDs of 2/10-15/2006 (including 2 sets of twins, a set of twin girls and a set of TWIN BOYS - something I've never seen before)! These dates include a weekend, so it's actually 4 LIDs. We're now 12 days away from our LID of 12/27/2006 - 8 actual LIDs. If CCAA keeps this pace, we can expect to see our little one's face in early December and hopefully travel before the Chinese New Year. Congrats to all the new mamas and babas! You can peep at these pretties on RQ's site at http://chinaadopttalk.com/.

Friday, September 26, 2008

The next batch of rumors ...


It appears the next batch of referrals will start arriving next week. No cut off date, yet, but sounding as if we'll get anywhere from 3-6 actual LIDs in the bunch. That would bring us to 2/14-17/2006, and that much closer to our LID of 2/27/2006. A December referral is still possible.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Autumn Moon Festival

This weekend we celebrated the Autumn Moon Festival with other local families with children from China. In Chinese culture, it is a time to reconnect with family and loved ones, and much like our Thanksgiving, it is a time for gratitude and appreciation. For me (and perhaps for E down the road), it is a symbolic way to connect with a birth family, who, although far away, are held close in our hearts.

It was a day of play for the kids with various games and crafts. Who knew I could actually make a Chinese yoyo spin? Several of the students from the Chinese Student Association at the U of R joined in the fun. There was a fashion show and lantern parade, followed by a pot-luck dinner and slide show. And last but not least, was the story teller. The Chinese tell a fascinating legend at the time of the Autumn Moon Festival and this was the version the story teller shared with us (dating back to around 2170 B.C.), with the help of several of the children who acted out the tale as it unfolded:

On the other side of the world is a country with a long and rich history. That country is China. China has many traditions. One of those is called the Moon Festival. Every year in China, on the 15th night of the 8th lunar month, the Chinese people celebrate the Moon Festival. The moon is the most full and bright on that night, they believe, because a husband and wife who lost one another are reunited on the moon.

This is the story of Hou Yi and Chang Er.

Once upon a time there was a famous archer, Hou Yi, who with his arrows was able to slay mankind’s worst enemies, ferocious beasts that inhabited the earth. Yi was married to Chang Er, a beautiful but inquisitive woman who had been an attendant of the queen mother of the west before her marriage. Now at this time, there were 10 suns that took turns circling the earth-one every 10 days. One day, all 10 of the orbs circled, together, causing the earth’s surface to burn and threatening mankind. The wise emperor of China summoned Yi and commanded him to shoot down all but one of the suns. This Yi proceeded to do. Upon the completion of his task, Yi was rewarded with a pill, the elixir of life, and advised: "make no haste to swallow this pill, but first prepare yourself with prayer and fasting for a year." Being a wise man, Yi took the pill home and hid it under a rafter while he began healing his spirit. In the midst of this, Yi was summoned again by the emperor.

While her husband was gone, Chang Er noticed a beam of white light beckoning from the rafter. She followed it and a fragrant perfume, discovered the pill and swallowed it. Immediately, Chang Er found she could fly. Just at that moment her husband returned home. Yi quickly realized what had happened and before he could begin to reprimand his wife, she flew out the window into the sky. Yi sped after Chang Er, bow in hand, and the pursuit continued halfway across the heavens. Finally, Yi had to return to the earth because of the force of the wind.

His wife reached the moon and there, breathless, she coughed. And because part of the pill fell from her mouth, it is there that she came to rest. Now, the hare was already on the moon and Chang Er commanded the animal to take pestle and mortar and pound another pill so that she could return to earth and her husband. The hare is still pounding.

How did the hare get on the moon you ask? Well, there's a legend for that as well: Three sages transformed themselves into pitiful old men and begged for something to eat from a fox, a monkey and a rabbit. The fox and the monkey both had food to give to the old men, but the rabbit, empty-handed, offered his own flesh instead, jumping into a blazing fire to cook himself. The fairies were so touched by the rabbit's sacrifice that they let him live in the Moon Palace where he became the "Jade Rabbit."

As for Yi, he built himself a palace in the sun as Yang (the sun and the male principle). His beloved Chang Er as Yin (the moon and the female principle), resides in the Moon Palace.

Once a year, on the 15th day of the full moon, Yi visits his wife. That is why the moon is full and beautiful on that night.

To celebrate Hou Yi's and Chang Er’s night of love, the Chinese people celebrate the Moon Festival. They eat Moon Cakes, which have a very special meaning. A long time ago the Mongols took over China and they were very cruel to the people. A brave Chinese man named Liu Fu Tong made little cakes in the shape of the moon. Inside each cake he hid a written message that told the people, "On the 15th night of the 8th month, rise up and fight the Mongols to take back our land," and the Chinese people took back their country.

Every culture has its legends and heroes. We all live and die, and hopefully - somewhere in the middle of all that living and dying - we learn to love. Do you think we'll ever figure out that we are more alike than we are different?

Thursday, September 11, 2008

WALL*E



WALL*E (short for Waste Allocation Load Lifter * Earth-class) is undoubtedly the most engaging superhero of the summer. Whether you're 4 or 40, you're gonna fall for him. Elizabeth particularly likes the vacuum vignette video. She laughs uncontrollably every time she sees it. So, go ahead. Click on WALL*E. And just try not to be charmed.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

More referrals ...


Referrals have arrived for those with LIDs of 2/1/2006 through 2/9/2006. Of those 9 days, only 4 were of actual log-in-dates (LIDs). It turns out that 2/1-5/2006 fell during Chinese New Year. Still, 4 days is twice as many as last month. Our LID is 2/27/2006, so our best guess is a referral in December and travel sometime after the 1st of the year. But it's just a guess.

Monday, September 1, 2008

A Trip Home ...

For most of us 315ers from Oswego County, summer would not be complete without at least 1 trip to "The Loop," where we would go to Rudy's for the best fish sandwich, hamburger hot or Hoffman's coney that you can find. In fact, folks who used to live there (myself included) like to stop by Rudy's when they go back to visit, as we did today.

More than 60 years ago, Rudy's started out as a tiny little lakeside stand that had a small menu but a big following. Over the years, Rudy's has expanded and is now much larger than when they first opened. Located on the shores of Lake Ontario, Rudy's is just on the edge of the SUNY Oswego campus. Actually, the easiest way to get to Rudy's is to go through the campus itself, but watch out for those campus police because they enforce their campus speed limit with an iron fist!

Inside Rudy's, the atmosphere is controlled chaos. You go up to the counter to place your order, which they write down on the back of a paper plate. You're given a slip of paper with a number on it, then you wait (and watch) while they make your food. And there really aren't any lines to the counter per se, you just kind of join the throng of people and somehow, everyone eventually makes it up there. When you finally get your food, it's loaded into a cardboard box tray. Your soda comes in a can, your beer in a bottle and your milk is the kind you got with your school lunch. There really aren't very many places to sit down inside Rudy's, but that's OK since you don't go there to eat inside. There are dozens of picnic tables lakeside and that is where you really want to eat (if you don't mind an occasional stinky dead fish) because the view is just extraordinary.

After dinner, it's down to the water to skip a few rocks into the lake. You would think that after more than 60 years of people skipping rocks into Lake Ontario that the lakeside would be devoid of rocks but somehow, they're still there year after year. I would imagine that several of those rocks have made it into the homes and aquariums of many central New Yorkers. In fact, I can attest that at least 1 has made it to Rochester.

After skipping rocks, it's time for dessert. Rudy's serves dessert, but those "in-the-know" never go to Rudy's for dessert. After dinner and rock-skipping, walk on down to the little ice cream stand called "Bev's" and get your ice cream there. Then sit on a bench or at a picnic table and eat your ice cream while the sun sets over the lake. It is just so beautiful, and I've always experienced a sense of peace and contentment there. Maybe it's because it's a memory my parents gave to me. And maybe it's a memory that we can give to our daughters.